16/07/2022.
Ever since I had an understanding of self love. I made a checklist of things that I want to do alone. Not gonna put out that list here. But would not think twice before blogging the experience.
While in past I had tried to shop alone and went to a salon alone. But i went to a movie alone for the first time ever. And unlike the last two activities where we interact with the people involved in it. In movies we sit silent and just enjoy the movie.
And turns out it isn’t as easy as i thought it would be. The fact that I could hardly spot people who came alone to watch movie, most of them came with either family or friends. I scrolled nervously and endlessly on my phone to avoid any eye contact with people sitting next to me. And I couldn’t stop thinking in the second half of the movie, felt so out of the place and even left the movie hall 10 minutes before the end because suddenly it felt claustrophobic. The empty seats on either sides of my seat just didn’t feel right almost felt like a stupid person for going alone.
But it was only after I walked out of the movie I realised that there were people who came to watch movie alone. But i believe 90% of them were men. The remaining 10% is my benefit of doubt. The very fact that as women we are always used to and taught to enjoy the social events in company of people stuck me hard. I know my first movie solo date experience didn’t work out the way I expected it to be. But now I know this isn’t my last movie date. Will make sure I go on few more until I make peace with the fact that I can be my best company.
TMI but I have never lived alone in my whole life. I have always lived with my parents. So this might sound exaggerated if you have lived alone. Also I haven’t even went on solo trip till date.